Parks & Ice Cream

It feels like I've been doing so many blog carnivals lately, but I saw this one and wanted to jump in this week. Plus there's not too much going on around here as of late, unless you want to listen to me bitch and moan all day.




I've been thinking about my Pap a lot over the past month or so. I think it's because I've lost a few people close to me and it just reminds me how much I miss those who are already gone.

For the first 6 years of my life, my mom and lived with my grandparents house. The house was HUGE with an awesome yard for sledding and woods to play in. During those 6 years it was my Pap who would watch me while my mom and Grammie worked. Looking back now I realize I may have been just a tad spoiled.

My favorite thing to do was go to the park. There were plenty nearby, but did I want to play at those ones? Not usually. If I wanted to play at the park that was a 1/2 hour away, my Pap would take me. But I stepped on a bee at that one once and my foot swelled up like a balloon, so we avoided that park for a while. But before that little incident, which was huge in my little girl eyes, that was the best park ever! There were swings, which I loved, awesome things to climb on even though I rarely climbed very high at all, and they had those big rubber balls with a handle that you cold sit and bounce on.

He also liked to take me down to the Shoppes for some ice cream. Apparently I also liked to drop my ice cream after just one lick. We would then march back in and get a new cone. Chocolate peanut butter, of course. It took me years to figure out that my Pap probably had to buy another cone. For the longest time I thought they just gave us a free replacement. Wouldn't it be nice if the world worked like that?

I was the first one to have kids in my family and everyone has always said that my Pap would have loved hanging out with my kids. Not because they're my kids and naturally awesome, but because they're kids. He loved kids. As a matter of fact, when my mom was growing up in that house, there were always other kids there. My grandparents took in foster kids for a while. Take that, add it to the 5 kids of their own plus the chickens out in the coop and it was quite a busy place!

Last summer, which was my first summer home with the kids all the time, I realized that I, too, can take them all kinds of places. I scoped out a few parks I plan on taking them to this summer. They may not be right in our backyard, but they're close enough. What's a little drive going to hurt, right?

The reason we didn't go to any of these parks last year was because something always got in the way. Either it was too hot and the pool was the option to keep everyone hot, or it was raining, or we had another trip already planned. But this summer. This summer will be awesome! Parks, museums, the zoo, and of course ice cream. Even if it means I have to buy a replacement cone!


If you want to read some more family stories or add your own, head on over to Keeping Up With the Schultz Family or The Peterson Family.

Until next time...

Leading - Not Always Fun

I had this whole post ready to go about the 100th day of school, and then my Girl Scout leader meeting came.

Yesterday was the 100th day of school and GG's class didn't do anything. She was really upset, but it turns out that once they hit the 2nd grade, they don't celebrate things like that anymore.

LAME!!!

Anyway, this meeting of mine. To put it nicely... it sucked!!!

Every year the Girl Scouts from our area host a Sweetheart Dance. This is a father/daughter dance on or around Valentine's weekend. Beings it's right before V-day, this was the big topic of discussion tonight. First we had to discuss the menu. Of course, no one could agree on anything. 3 hot dishes with 2 salads, or 2 hot dishes, a sandwich tray, and 2 salads? Oh, but wait, there's enough people going where we can get 3 salads! You would have thought this decision was going to change the course of mankind! Just pick something and move on. We're all moms so it's not like we're the ones who will eat the food anyway! Father/daughter... ya, we're neither of those!

Someone who was not the woman in charge of the dance was going over the paperwork. The woman in charge of this event handed the papers over to the treasurer last month and never got them back so she assumed she was free from all decision making from that point on. Really?! Anyway, it was noticed that desert was not included in the meal plan (once they decided on that 45 minutes later!). Someone suggested we bake cookies and brownies, because they would be less messy than cake or cupcakes. As long as it was all on trays when we got there, there was no extra charge. I don't want to bake a bazillion cookies so I kept my mouth shut. Don't you know another woman jumped up and said, "I can make a huge and really good strawberry cake!" Um, didn't we just agree that cake was not an option?

And then we had to discuss when and where we were going to distribute the cookies. We know when they're being delivered, but of course no one knows what time.

Good grief people! The saying "Behind every good man stands an even better woman" definitely does NOT apply here!

I love that I can be involved in something my daughter s interested in and the other leader of our troop is awesome! But outside of our troop, this is the worst organized group of women I have ever met. EVER!!!

As long as I keep my mouth shut during the meetings, I figure I can't be suckered into being in charge of something I want nothing to do with. I would rather go back to my old job being in charge of a bunch of snotty 1 year olds than try to lead some of those women! I never thought it could get much worse than that job, but I certainly don't want to chance it. And just to clarify, I don't mean snotty as is brats. I mean snotty in the literal sense of the word. "Day care nose" ~ it's a real thing. Trust me!

Until next time...
Steelers

I'll Tell You What I Really Think!



Have you ever been in one of those situations where you said A, but you really meant to say B, but you were too afraid to actually say B? Well, that's what Chief's carnival is all about ~ all the things you wanted to say, but couldn't. Or wouldn't.

Maybe if I keep practicing here, I can grow a pair and start to say what I really meant for you to hear!

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When a certain person who asked if there were any Wii games I wanted for my birthday, I politely replied that I would think about it, look around and let her know.


What I meant to say was ~
You asked me this 2 weeks ago and I told you the one game I would like to have. You freaked out because you don't think I need it. Well, I think I do! And the point is, you asked, I told. Can't you just keep your opinions to yourself? You didn't have to go and make me feel all bad about myself. Thanks!


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Last Friday my mom sent me an IM asking if I was here. I was busy making dinner and trying to get things ready for the pool party so it took me a few minutes to get back to her. I said I was here and her response was

"I'm heading out the door to McCoy's!"
my favorite bar

My response ~ "Have fun! I have to get ready to go to the pool."

What I meant to say ~ Eff you! I'd much rather go drinking than sit at a pool with a bunch of kids who annoy the crap out of me (mine excluded, of course).

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When the iPad was finally announced the other day, my husband said that maybe he would get me one of those instead of a netbook. This is the man who has been saying for months that he'd get me a netbook for my birthday.

I politely said "No, thanks. I would rather have the netbook."

He was cool with that.


Monday, he sent me a link to a netbook he found. It has everything I would need, way more hard drive space than I would ever need, and a built in camera. I think that last part is pretty cool, so can someone school me on how to use Skype now please?! Oh, and the best part ~ it was being offered at an incredibly cheap price! And trust me, I know it's not a cheap, as in poorly made, machine. My husband is king of computer geeks and he knows what's good and what's not. This is good.

What I meant to say ~

I'M GETTING MY NETBOOK!!!!!!

Yes, there would be much
jumping and dancing
while I shout this from the rooftops!


This means I can

tweet and watch tv

Facebook and watch tv

Spread my resale stuff out on the living room floor
while I enter it into the system
instead of cramming into the already tight dining room



Can you tell I'm excited about my birthday present this year?
And getting it a week early makes it even better, cuz I'm not patient AT ALL!!!!


And if I start stalking you tweeting all the time and taking over reading your blog all the time, just tell me to leave you the hell alone take a computer break, k? Thanks!


Until next time...

Post-it Note Tuesday



Last Tuesday in this post
I was complaining about Mother Nature

Surprise, surprise, right?!


There was something on one of my post-its

that I thought would make someone chuckle

but I forgot to give her credit.

So,
Shell, I apologize!




Wait! Who am I again?
Oh, right!

Soon to be winner
!!!
:)







Immediately after she opened the bottle
I thought to myself
"One could get a buzz off of this stuff!"

No sooner do I think that
when Little Dude starts complaining
that he's hungry!




There are some funky noises coming out of my Dell.
And it's slow as molasses!
I just found out today
that my darling husband
bought me a netbook for my birthday.
And I'm allowed to open it early
since we're not sure how much longer the Dell will last.




Hopelessly addicted fan!
Need I say more?


Post-its
Now head on over to SupahMommy's blog to read some more good sticky notes!

Go ahead, click the post-it! You know you want to!


Until next time...

Busted

I'll be honest with you. I was going to opt out of SupahMommy and MommyBrain's Meme this round. Why, you ask? Well the topic is really not something that relates to me. You see, I have never been pulled over.

Yes, I am dead serious about that!
And quite proud of it, too!


But then it occurred to me that my BFF had been pulled over and since I was in the car with her, I figure I can use that story.

Way back in the day Back when we were in high school, we were coming home from a friend's house. You know, the friend who's house we tried to walk to on New Year's Eve one year? Wait, I never blogged about that story? I'll have to do that someday. It's a good story!

Anyway, we were driving through the neighborhood where I now live and apparently a cop didn't think we stopped at a stop sign. Pissed, she pulled over. After handing her the ticket he said she could show up at the magistrate to argue the stupid thing. She would get something in the mail saying when she should show up. So of course she decided to argue it. I went with her for 2 reasons.

1. She's my BFF and I always got her back. We're the type who would wake up in jail together and say "That was fun! Let's do it again". Not that we would ever cause that much trouble. Not us! We're good!

2. The day she had to show at the magistrate was Senior Skip Day.

Now I don't know about your alma mater, but for our school, this was a special day. Everyone decorated their cars, showed up at school for a special breakfast and to show off their cars, and then drove around for a bit before the lame picnic at the park. While you drove around, there was much horn blaring, water balloon throwing, and water gun blasting. I'm still a little ticked at my husband, then boyfriend, who, with the help of a friend, soaked us through and through. They had the biggest and baddest Super Soakers and the windows in my BFF's car were reeeeeally slow to go up!

Wait, let me back up a bit to the magistrate before the other police story involved here.

We had decorated her car the day before. Before heading to the school we had to stop at the magistrate's office. I'm sure we looked like complete fools pulling into that parking lot in a car covered with tissue paper flowers and fake sandwiches from Subway. Why Subway sandwiches? Happy Gilmore was our favorite movie at the time.

So we get to the magistrate and find out that the cop will not be there. We were quite annoyed that we had to do this in the first place, but having the charges dropped made it somewhat better. So after a few fixes to our paper flowers, we headed off to the school. We did our breakfast thing and started driving, throwing balloons as we went. Suddenly an officer pulls us over and informs us that we can't throw balloons at anyone. Lucky for him we were out of balloons by that time. We made sure we let him know that after we apologized. He left and as we started driving up the hill to head out to the park, at least a dozen water balloons rolled out from under the front passenger seat!

We didn't throw any of them because we were told we weren't allowed.

At least that's what I'll tell you!

Until next time...